Strength shows not only in the ability to persist, but to start over.
Probably many people heard of “5 stages of grief” after the loss of loved-ones or divorce etc. According to my personal experience, abused survivors also going through similar healing / grieving process. It’s not necessary have specific order or time limit for each stage as it depends on individuals’ perception / experiences : some may stuck at certain stage much longer than other stages; jump around or wandering back and forth.
Human born to have coping mechanism to protect ourselves and eliminate pains / hurts while handling disasters/trauma. But this habit may sometimes obstruct our objective thinking. For example, when we are confronted by difficult situation we tend to deny the facts.
It’s common to find wives who deny all evidences indicated from their husband’s affairs, they reject to accept the truth that the so-called good marriage…
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